|aTraining for adulthood is not for wimps. When you are eleven years old, is there anything more humiliating, or bound to cause a fight, than shopping with your mother when your body is in full-throttle warp? Yes, there is: picking out the school-required underwear. Or worse, your mother's male co-worker shows up at thescene. Or even worse: your brother wants to TALK about it at the dinner table. Training to be an adult, Jun-li discovers, is hard work.