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  《紐約時報》暢銷作家挑戰人類思維的警世血淚之作,趁「自我」還沒毀了你之前,時時提醒自己!
  上萬讀者跪著看完都說:「真想把每頁撕下來當壁紙,時時提醒自己!」

  當社會94狂,你必須慌張,
  因為你的自信,會不會從來就是「假的」?

  根據佛洛伊德的心理學理論,每個人的人格有三我:本我、自我、超我。
  其中最需要小心的就是「自我」。為什麼?

  當一個人自以為是時,我們一定會說他很「自我」,這就是所謂的自大,
  也可以說,每個人內心都住著一名自大狂。
  尤其現在媒體不斷強調自我時,要人們表現出才華洋溢、積極進取,
  不過,這樣反而是在壯大每個人內心的自大狂,
  很多人自以為自信滿滿,但根本就是自信失控!

  美國暢銷作家萊恩‧霍利得(Ryan Holiday)指出,
  在人生三大關鍵時刻,要小心內心的自大狂會跑出來扯後腿,
  害你無法追夢、難以精進、加倍挫折!
 
  1.追求夢想時:胸懷壯志很棒,但光是雄心勃勃只會惹上一身禍。
  2.有所成就後:成就一不小心就會變成自毀前程。如何戰勝成功後的心魔?
  3.遇到挫折時:自我不只讓你得意忘形,也會讓你一蹶不振!
 
  霍利得針對這三個階段提出多種方法,幫你管好你內心的自大狂:
  .十原則讓你不再只是光說不練,展現內斂的自信,化逆境為轉機。
  .九要領教你在出人頭地後,也不會得大頭症。
  .七心法幫你制定自己的成功標準,在挫敗時,還能挖掘其中的價值。
 
  此外,霍利得更教你偷學許多哲學家的智慧與成功人士的例子,讓你不忘初衷──
  .古希臘哲學家伊索克拉底建議人們在追夢時,別受情緒操控,並鍛鍊心智
  .看成吉思汗如何成就偉大帝國的霸業?
  .學德國總理梅克爾如何以大局為重,讓她連任三次總理?
  .了解賈伯斯被趕出蘋果公司時,做了什麼才讓他有了劃時代的發明?

  只要懂得從自我中拿掉自大,時時刻刻管好你內心的自大狂,
  你的自信才不會失控,而且攻不可破!

  本文取自三采出版《失控的自信:拿掉自大,你的自信才攻不可破!》

  It's wrecked the careers of promising young geniuses. It's evaporated great fortunes and run companies into the ground. It's made adversity unbearable and turned struggle into shame. Every great philosopher has warned against it, in our most lasting stories and countless works of art, in all culture and all ages. Its name? Ego, and it is the enemy - of ambition, of success and of resilience.

  In Ego is the Enemy, Ryan Holiday shows us how and why ego is such a powerful internal opponent to be guarded against at all stages of our careers and lives, and that we can only create our best work when we identify, acknowledge and disarm its dangers. Drawing on an array of inspiring characters and narratives from literature, philosophy and history, the book explores the nature and dangers of ego to illustrate how you can be humble in your aspirations, gracious in your success and resilient in your failures.

  The result is an inspiring and timely reminder that humility and confidence are our greatest friends when confronting the challenges of a culture that tends to fan the flames of ego, a book full of themes and life lessons that will resonate, uplift and inspire.
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